This guy has had his images stolen and used on Instagram, other social media, gaming and dating platforms online. Please remember that he is as much a victim of the scammer as you are and never approach the real person. They are usually aware of the problem and are fighting it as much as you are.
The real person in any accounts on any platforms is a guy called Jay McHugh
Handily on the following screenshot, he is pointing to his own name on the bulletin board and a reverse image search confirmed that he indeed is the person named above.
The following a screenshot of my laptop with a search for Jay McHugh. This should convince you that anyone using his images is a fake out for a scam with you.